Sunday, February 10, 2019

more basketball- semi finals

This week has been a rough week.  The girl has been trying my patience- I am really getting frustrated that everything she does is something that is trying to control me or irritate the boy.  It is like she thrives on conflict and can not stand when things are calm or going well.

She desperately wants to do drama this Spring, but she is falling 4 classes again and there are only 3 weeks left in the trimester.  I cannot put her in drama knowing that she will have less time for homework because of the practices for the show.

Friday night, I took the kids to the trampoline park to let them run off some energy.  Rocket spent most of  the 2 hours shooting baskets and sis spent most of the night playing dodge ball.

















Practicing dunking.

Sunday afternoon, we had the semi final for the league championship.  The boys won a low scoring game.  The championship game is Friday night (15Feb) at 7:30.  We will likely play the team from St. James (we have played them 3 times this year).





Shooting free throws- when the other team had a technical foul.  

Love and hugs,
Deb

Wednesday, February 06, 2019

moving toward the end of this season of life.

this weekend was the last regular season for Rocket's basketball team- their last game in their home gym as 8th graders.   Next year, they scatter to various high schools around the city.   Thus begins the 'final' months as 8th graders.
This year, Rocket's team has a record of 8 wins and 2 losses.  They are in second place in the league.  The parents put together a celebration of the team on Sunday at the last game and the boys won the game in style.  I asked my friend, Leigh, to take pictures for the team and she got some great shots of Rocket.
 
So, this is my boy- not so little any more, and looking more and more grown up.  He has MUSCLES


Preparing to take a 3 point shot- he can make baskets from out here and makes them regularly!!!



This is Rocket- all action.  I love it.

Going up for a layup- he made it.


Rushing back to defend the basket from the other team.

Defense wins games!
The team moves on to tournaments starting next weekend.   I am hoping they do as well in the tournament as they have done all year.
 
Next week, Rocket also starts football conditioning- that is north American football, not soccer.   He will have conditioning (weight lifting and running) for the next 4 months before they start football drills.  With conditioning starting, he will not be playing Spring Soccer- there is no time in his schedule.

I think you all need some pictures of Pablo- cutie that he is.   He is resting with me at lunch.  He naps with his 'baby'- his toy.

Why are you taking my picture and disturbing my nap???

All bundled up from the cold.

In other news, Rocket and I have agreed on where he will go to high school.  He has wanted to attend LaSalle for years and I have been dreading it since it costs quite a lot to attend there and I knew he would not get any scholarships (his grades are not good enough to get scholarships).  Well, he was accepted and we reviewed the household budget and I can afford to send him to LaSalle- they are looking into getting some financial aid to help offset the cost.  
He is a member of the class of 2023!!!!
 
He is so happy.  Most of his closest friends from grade school are also going to attend LaSalle- all his buddies from scouts are going there- so he will have friends to start the year.  Although, it is likely he wont be in any classes with his friends - that is the difference in high school- everyone can choose their own classes, so it is unlikely you would have classes with friends.
 
 
Rocket was also nominated for NYLT (New Youth Leader Training) with scouts- this means the scout leaders see leadership potential in him and want him to learn how to be a great leader.  He will attend camp in June for a week to learn leadership skills.  His scout master says this is the same leadership skills training that major companies like Proctor and Gamble send their managers too- so these are life long skills he will be taught.  I am so excited for him as he was feeling like he might want to leave scouts.  I am glad this came up and encouraged him, as he is once again excited about scouts.
the season of my life and Rocket's life of being a grade schooler is coming to an end.  He has 3 weeks left in this marking period for school and then one more 10 week period, ending in May and he will be a high schooler.  I am not sure I am ready for this change in our lives. I think about it and I have about 4 years until he heads off to college or the military.  How is that possible?   How is it I am looking at the end of being a full time mom (though I will always be momma)?  How is it possible that so many years have passed by from when he came home as a 2 year old?  How can I be looking at the end of him being with me every single day and needing me every single day?
 
 
In other news- last week we had the brutally cold temperatures (-25 F on Wednesday and Thursday) and this week it is 60 F and pouring rain.  So much rain today that the back yard was flooding.  there is still more rain to come tonight thru Friday morning.  I think my backyard will be under water in the back part- close to the fence.


 
that's all for today.
 
Love and hugs,
Deb

Friday, February 01, 2019

Cold days and time with friends

this week, we have seen all weather type or we will weather types. 
 
Monday was Ok, Tuesday was ok until the evening, then Wednesday - it got cold.  Our low was -25 F (that is like -25 C too).   It never warmed up on Wednesday, Thursday was slightly warmer at 0 F, and today it snowed overnight and we are expected to get above freezing (32 F).  We are not as cold as Michigan, but guess how many days the kids went to school this week?
 
Yep- 2 days total.  Now Saturday and Sunday are supposed to be up near 60 F and then later next week, snow comes back.
this is a picture of the beautiful sunrise on Tuesday. 

Monday was my birthday and the kids had other activities- so I went out to the ice cream shop for a treat.   YUMMM
 

Tuesday night, we went out to dinner with Lisa- whose birthday was last week.  We celebrated with Tacos.  I love Taco Tuesday.
 
Love and hugs,
Deb